30 July 2025

Rekindling Home Fires

Mano Whenua. Heartland.

WRITER: Anna Brankin (Kāi Tahu, Kāti Māmoe)
photographer: Vivian Gehrmann

For Wikitoria Lewer (Ngāti Maniapoto), candle making is a personal journey of whānau, loss and reclamation. Through her candles, she honours her whakapapa and seeks to connect people to the past and enrich the present. 

 

Born and raised in the King Country town of Te Kūiti, Wiki, 53, grew up in a small, close-knit whānau. “It was just my brother, Sean, and me, and our parents, Jonna and Michael,” she says. “I didn’t realise it at the time but, looking back, I can see how blessed we were. It was a very loving and nurturing household.” Losing both parents to cancer – her mother in 2006, her father in 2018 – left an immense void in her life. “I was thirty-four when Mum died, which is a really hard time to be without your mum,” Wiki says. “And it was even harder when I had my first baby a few years later. I really missed having her influence then.” 

“My kids remember my dad, their papa, but they never met my mum,” says Wiki. “I still see her in them, in lots of little ways. Two of my boys have the same eye colour as her, a caramel-chocolatey brown, and then there are little mannerisms that remind me so much of her.”
“My kids remember my dad, their papa, but they never met my mum,” says Wiki. “I still see her in them, in lots of little ways. Two of my boys have the same eye colour as her, a caramel-chocolatey brown, and then there are little mannerisms that remind me so much of her.”

Raising three sons – Rereahu, 15, Eraia, 13, and Marino, 10 – has brought Wiki immense joy, as well as the challenge that will resonate with many women of losing her identity amid the chaos of whānau life. “I think any mum will understand that reality. You’re so busy with the kids that you sort of lose yourself, don’t you?” After the birth of her youngest son, Wiki was determined to reclaim her identity but wasn’t sure where to start. A chance visit to a women’s expo led her to a stall selling handmade candles, sparking an unexpected new path. “I stood there forever, thinking, ‘Oh man, that’s so cool,’” Wiki recalls. “I bought myself a tiny one, thinking that I should be spending the money on nappies instead. But for once, I decided to treat myself.” 

That small act of self-care ignited her curiosity about the candle-making process. Wiki bought a small kit and started experimenting. “I had always loved candles, the atmosphere they bring and the ritual of lighting them,” she says. “A tiny gesture can transform an ordinary moment into something special.” Making candles herself was something else altogether. Wiki quickly realised this was more than just a hobby. It became a way to process grief, to carve out space for herself, and to reconnect with who she was beyond motherhood. “I loved the creative outlet and it gave me a sense of peace,” Wiki says. “A lot of my healing started with candle making. I could shut out the noise of the world and just be with my thoughts.” 

“I always know how I’m feeling based on how my candles turn out. If I’m rushed or distracted, I can see it in the pour. But when I’m fully present, everything flows beautifully.” 

As she poured wax and mixed scents, Wiki often found herself reflecting. “I’d think, ‘How does this make me feel? What is this bringing up?’ By the time I’d finish a candle, I’d have processed something I didn’t even realise I was holding onto.” Drawn to keep making candles, Wiki says she ended up with so many that her whole house was lit up like a Christmas tree. She began gifting them to friends and selling them at local markets, tamariki in tow. 

Life continued to evolve. She met her partner, Rangi, who encouraged her to pursue her passion. “He told me, ‘The happiest I see you is when you’re creating, but you’re just dabbling. You should do this properly.’ So I did. And I haven’t looked back.” Rangi helps with the narrative and cultural aspect behind the candles, and his influence has also helped Wiki reconnect with her whakapapa. “I did feel a bit disconnected after losing Mum at such a young age, as well as my grandfather, who had been a big cultural influence. Sometimes it felt easier to stay away,” she says. “In the past five years, I’ve fallen back in love with Te Kūiti. I go home all the time, to see my whānau, hear stories about my mum and grandparents. It’s all about connection.”  

Connection became a big part of her thinking when she started planning for Wiks Candles. “I wanted our candles to tell a story and to be different from anything else on the market,” Wiki says. “There are so many narratives within Māori culture around fire, and that’s the path I ended up following.” One candle, which she named Mōmotu Ahi, was inspired by the tradition of carrying embers from the home fire when moving to a new place. “Our ancestors would blow on the embers, reigniting the flame and lighting a new fire that was connected to where they had come from,” Wiki explains. “The idea is that it connects you back to your own home fire – whatever that means to you.” 

 

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