12 July 2022

Raising Her Hand

Āna Kōrero. In Her Own Words.

Writer: ANNA BRANKIN (KĀI TAHU, NGĀTI MĀMOE)
Photographer: FRANCINE BOER

Self-proclaimed lifelong learner Kate Menzies, 54, is passionate about supporting a new generation of farmers to make connections and grow their skills. She has farmed sheep and beef in St Bathans with her husband David for twenty-two years. Kate tells Shepherdess about the women who inspire and motivate her.

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"There are so many smart and articulate young women in our area doing so many great things. They allow me to be part of their world, which I just love so much. I have so much to learn from them, and I'm hoping they can learn something from my experiences as well."

I’m being brave for my daughter, Alex, basically. Years ago I went to hear a talk by social justice advocate Celia Lashlie, who has sadly passed away now. She was a great presenter. She stood up in front of a room of women like me, and she said: “Be the change you want your daughters to see in the world.” I’ve held on to that, really.

I don’t have a tertiary education and I decided that as a very outspoken, proactive farmer, I needed to show my daughter – and my son Henry, 27, and my nieces and nephews – that I could put my hand up to learn more, even though I found it very difficult.

"The love we have for the land is something we ought to be proud of and ought to share," Kate says.

I started attending courses over ten years ago through the Agri-Women's Development Trust, run by the fantastic Lindy Nelson, and through that I've learnt to say "yes" to the opportunities that come my way. When the children were at school I became involved with their school boards, which was something I really loved doing. Sometimes it could be quite confronting, and to begin with I was always concerned with what others thought of me and trying to please everyone. I really don't feel that I'm any different from the many amazing New Zealand women you come across every day.

Occasionally I get the opportunity to have a bigger voice in our industry. When David and I first moved here, women didn't tend to attend the community meetings in the water or irrigation space and, if they did, they weren't listened to. But I always went along and over time so did others. Those same passionate, professional women now lead pre-eminent consultation and discussions in the water and environmental space locally and nationwide.

I'm just surrounded by incredible women. I've got two really successful sisters, and my mother - who is sadly not with us anymore - was a great role model. In Mum's eyes it was just about getting up, dressing up and showing up, that was her thing. And I hope I've been able to do the same and do her proud.

"My big, hairy, audacious goal would be that everyone has the opportunity to keep learning, and we keep being able to provide some form of growth and education to everyone."

I look at Alex, 25, and her contemporaries who are involved in agribusiness and I'm so proud of how smart and articulate they are. The things that we fought for, that our grandmothers began the fight for, some of those issues aren't there anymore. When Alex went to Lincoln University it was a fifty-fifty split and the boys don't think anything of it, working alongside their female counterparts. The girls don't think anything of it either. Alex never gets up in the morning and thinks she's lesser because she's a woman. So I think it has been worthwhile for me to have said "yes" to all those things, even when I was incredibly uncomfortable about it.

More recently I've learnt to - and I say it very bluntly - ditch the shame. Before that, I would always try to muddle my way through things alone. But now I've been reading a bit of Brené Brown and I know I have to ask for help around things I don't know. Imagine if I had done that when I was thirty-five!

"I don't always get it right. In fact, sometimes I get it so wrong that I'm almost right again," Kate admits. "But I try to learn from that and keep moving forward."

Once you become a lifelong learner, you hope that everyone else might do the same. My big hairy, audacious goal would be that everyone has the opportunity to keep learning, and we keep being able to provide some form of growth and education, so we can just take everyone with us. I really do think that if we can be open-minded and keep our eyes above the headlights, New Zealand can still lead the world in agriculture.

When Rabobank approached me and asked if I'd consider going on its Lower South Island Client Council, it just seemed like something I could say "yes" to. The Council is a collective of the bank's clients, who provide perspective to the leadership team on rural issues and services the bank provides. It's been a wonderful journey. I was a member of the council for two years and I have just been appointed as chair.

A big part of our role is to provide ways for the bank to give back to farming communities. One of the programmes we run is out of Invercargill is called AgPathways, which is targeted at 25-35 year olds. There is quite a gap in terms of support for that age group, and many of them don't have automatic pathways into farm management. It's very heavily subsidised, which makes it accessible to young farmers when financially things can be a bit of a struggle, and it's a great networking opportunity as well. I'm so fortunate to have this opportunity.

I've loved being on the Client Council, and I'm really proud of what we've achieved and excited for what we can do in the future. I see how much these young people thrive if somebody just walks alongside them. Farming is a difficult beast these days. The nature of employment in rural New Zealand has changed a lot, and we have a lot of young people entering the industry without any qualifications so they feel on the back foot, very embarrassed about what they don't know. I'm passionate about finding a way forward for them, helping them to gain confidence without being shown up. The success of our programmes is when our participants leave feeling excited for their future, and to keep learning. We like to drop the seed and what they choose to do with it is up to them.

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