16 December 2024

Betting on Love

Ngā Mārena. Rural Weddings.

writer: Elise Cacace
photographer: Francine Boer

Atop a hill overlooking the rich and rugged terrains of Bendigo Station, Māniatoto Central Otago and beyond, Brenna Johnston and Patrick Heaney stood before their closest family and friends and said, “I do.” After a false start at their first meeting at the Glenorchy Races, the couple fell in love and celebrated their union by staying true to their rural roots.

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“Pat is such a laid-back character who makes me more relaxed and calm,” says Brenna. “Being a teacher I can be pretty uptight and need a routine that is always followed, but Patrick is completely opposite – which allows me to relax and not worry so much about everything being so perfect. I have never meet someone who has made me feel so relaxed and safe with whatever we are doing. It really balances us as a relationship.”

Brenna and Patrick, both 30, were first introduced eleven years ago at the annual Glenorchy Races. Brenna says, “I was riding in the races with his older sister, Pru, andshe introduced me to Pat. I rememberthinking he was a lovely young chap, butfar too full-on for me. I was about to go intomy last year of university so I wasn’t reallylooking for anything apart from friendship.I thought, ‘Gosh he is a lot of fun, but maybea little bit too much fun for me.’ I rememberhim saying he would marry me one day, andI said, ‘Get a grip!’

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Above left. Brenna designed the menus herself. “We always knew we really wanted a farm wedding, where everyone could have a relaxed country feel,” she says. Top. “I had been looking for blue shoes originally, but after trying different shoes on I decided to go with the pearl and diamond ones – I had seen them on Instagram and just fell in love.” Above. “One of the helicopters I used to service belongs to Denis Nyhon, the person I now work for, so it was really cool being able to use it at the wedding,” says Patrick.

It wasn’t until six years later, back at the Glenorchy Races, that Patrick’s attempts tow in Brenna over finally saw some success. He says, “When I first met Brenna I told her I was going to marry her one day, as a joke – but it turns out it was true! I liked that Brenna was fun, sassy, outgoing and out of my league, but little did she know the powers within. A few cheeky smiles and banter had her coming back for more!”

Not long after that second meeting, Patrick took Brenna out to Mou Waho Island on Lake Wānaka and asked her to be his girlfriend. This same place sprang to mind when he was looking for somewhere to propose – although things didn’t quite go as planned. Patrick says, “I was going to take the jetboat out to Mou Waho, but as I launched out towards it there were these massive waves smashing us, so I had to make a quick plan B and shoot down the river where it was more sheltered. We ended up pulling into a bank, having a picnic and I eventually built up the courage to pop the question – so it worked out in the end.

Brenna and Partick’s childhoods share a common rural thread. She grew up in the remote township of Haast, never far from the countryside due to her dad’s work on a nearby farm and her love for riding horses; he was born and raised on a station in the Nevis Valley, farming alongside his family. Brenna says, “My childhood was filled with bare feet, climbing trees, riding horses and living a pretty carefree life. Pat grew up on a farm in Marlborough in his early years and then Central Otago where his sister and brother-in-law are now. As a couple, our shared values really come down to the love of the outdoors. We both love to be outdoing things together – jet boating, walking, mountain biking, fishing, hanging with our family and friends. We make it a priority to do these things as often as we can.”

Brenna now works as a teacher at Te Kurao Take Kārara school in Wānaka, while Patrick has recently left his job as an aircraft engineer at Wānaka airport to begin a new chapter as a manager on a grazing block. This career change meant a move to the countryside in Tarras where Patrick is now working. “Since living back out on the farm, we’ve learned to really appreciate the small things. Hearing the birds and lambs each morning as you wake up. Having your neighbours pop over to catch up or see how you are getting on. For me, just looking out my kitchen window to a beautiful garden and mountain tops has been something I stop and take in every day. You just don’t get that in town.”

One of Ella’s favourite photos from the day is with her grandma. “Our oldest and one of our most precious guests was Grandma Nessie, my mum’s mum. She’s awesome. She turned one-hundred this July, and she still texts.”

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“My amazing aunty is fantastic at baking, so for part of her contribution to the day she made the cake,” says Brenna. “Both Patrick and I love cream cheese icing, so carrot cake it was.”

Mountaintops and countryside were the chosen backdrop for their special day, held at Bendigo Station, which is owned by Patrick’s relatives, the Perriam family. “The ceremony was held on the highest plateau that overlooks all of Tarras and Cromwell, up towards Hāwea. We could see everywhere where we lived and grew up, which was really cool,” says Patrick. Described as “the perfect day,” Brenna and Patrick explain it never would have happened without the army of supportive friends and family working overtime to pull everything together. From the Perriam family providing the beautiful Bendigo Station backdrop, to the homemade flower arrangements, fresh fish caught by Patrick and his friends, the meat that came from Patrick’s family farm and the crayfish donated by one of their wedding guests, everybody pitched in to make the day happen – but not without a few bloopers.

“One of the groomsmen forgot to come to the ceremony!” Brenna laughs. “We were driving up the hill towards the ceremony and suddenly Pat rang to say, ‘Stop, stop, stop!’ It turned out the groomsmen hadn’t arrived yet. Turns out they were having a beer under the tree and didn’t realise they had to get in the helicopter to get up to the ceremony straightaway. They had a good entrance though because they arrived in a helicopter, so at least it looked good.

Left “We both enjoy living the rural lifestyle, and going back to the roots of when I grew up on a farm and having the freedom and the outdoors is quite exciting for us,” says Patrick. Right. “We wanted a beautiful place for the ceremony,” says Brenna, “so after many drives with Patrick’s cousin, Stu Perriam, we landed on the perfect spot called the Chalet. We had only family come up to our ceremony as it was a thirty-five minute four-wheel drive to the top of the skyline. We then decided to have the marquee and reception set up at the homestead. We invited the rest of our family to join us there. Many had thought that was when we were getting married but as we entered we were already married.”

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Above. Brenna with her bridesmaids Maggie Topham, Toni Hyslop and Nicole Buchanan. “I choose black as Maggie was eight-months pregnant, so I knew she would want something comfy. The other two girls had just had babies, so I let the girls choose what style they would like and being black it was easy.”

It’s now been over eight months since the special day and life still hasn’t slowed down. Between a new job and a new house, the couple have one final surprise up their sleeve. “We’re having a baby!” Brenna says. “We’re going to be so busy. Our whole life is about to flip, but that’s okay. And we never went on a honeymoon so we’re still hoping to get away overseas in the near future, which is exciting. You can always strap a baby on, can’t you? And then we’re away!”

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“At one stage we didn’t have enough flowers,” Brenna says, “so a couple of farming ladies who have beautiful gardens chipped in, and Mum went off and got more flowers from their gardens.”

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Above. “Penny is our lovely springer spaniel,” Brenna says. “We have had her for three years now and she is a massive part of our family. She is loved most by my father, Skip, who would do anything for Penny. She is treated like a princess when she goes around their house to the point where she is allowed inside, sleeping on a blanket in the garage when it’s cold. She is very much an outside dog for us. Dad has joked that when the baby comes Penny might have to go around to their house!” Below. Pat loves Crocs – if he could he would wear them every single day. We thought we could purchase matching Crocs for the day. We also bought our groomsmen and bridesmaids Crocs with our wedding date on them!”

BRENNA & PATRICK
23 February 2024

Bride Brenna Johnston, 30, daughter of Margo & Skip Johnston, Tarras
Groom Patrick Heaney, 30, son of Charlotte Perriam, Nelson & Trevor Heaney, Bannockburn
Wedding Location Tarras, Central Otago
Ceremony and Reception Bendigo Station
Celebrant Jacqui Henderson
Photographer Francine Boer
Bride’s Dress Hera Couture, Paperswan Bride
Bridesmaids’ Dresses BLAK Bridesmaids
Shoes Harlo Bridal Shoes
Makeup Olivia Thompson
Hair Nicole Saunders
Flowers Hydrangeas from Patrick’s aunt’s garden, additional flowers hand picked by his mum from local farmers’ gardens, and marquee flower feature created by his sister
Bouquets The Workroom, Wānaka
Catering Devour Catering, Wānaka
Cake Brenna’s aunt, Rachael Bellaney
Music Brad Staley
Party Hire Prestige Marquees & Events and Wanaka Marquee & Party Hire
Honeymoon An overseas trip is planned
Living Tarras, Otago

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